Successful recovery always involves the building of community.  Attachments are really the life raft of living into recovery, whether that is sex and love addiction,or others.  Without community, most addicts relapse.  Attachments that are healthy are essential to emotional happiness and life stability.  If you don’t have healthy attachments, start to look for them.  See our resource page for additional options for groups in the area, websites that can help you find what you are looking for.