It is unnatural at first to engage in therapy.? You are designed for relationships that are reciprocal where you are, and those relationships have failed you, or you have failed in those relationships.? Welcome to therapy, engaging with another person, trained in listening well and understanding people.? You are in a safe environment.? Worries, unmet needs, hopes, dreams, disappointments, pain, grief can come spilling out, or slowly be explored.? Desire for more is encountered.? Change is welcome, though painful.? You are different, more whole.? People experience you as changed.? You are.